tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8884955.post1322982402627634114..comments2023-07-10T06:58:29.388-04:00Comments on fire | water: who's really queer?omihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12999467500417449611noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8884955.post-68787740530804058842010-04-03T09:34:28.907-04:002010-04-03T09:34:28.907-04:00about the correction: when i first wrote this, i w...<i>about the correction</i>: when i first wrote this, i wasn't aware of the term "cisgender" vs. "biological" male/female. i'm striving to use more inclusive language where appropriate, and now that i know how to do a strike-through tag, it makes things easier!<br /><br />o.omihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12999467500417449611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8884955.post-55087359435804282642009-04-11T17:35:00.000-04:002009-04-11T17:35:00.000-04:00@nehanda...thanks for stopping by. i've noticed th...@nehanda...thanks for stopping by. <BR/><BR/>i've noticed that men from different countries do have a totally different vibe. typically it's refreshing. they don't wear a mass of hangups about being men/manhood on their sleeves. they just...are.omihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12999467500417449611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8884955.post-38747958591141777192009-04-11T09:57:00.000-04:002009-04-11T09:57:00.000-04:00since coming to the states, i have found only two ...since coming to the states, i have found only two spots that i feel comfortable being around black men. its no wonder that these stops are barbershops. one run by a christian dude. no profanity and prosetylizing go hand in hand. and the other is run by a hispanic lady with a mix max of clientale. i cannot tell you how much i miss being around men. yesterday, was one of those not very often holy nehandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08497048944493713258noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8884955.post-79189969930800726582009-02-04T17:16:00.000-05:002009-02-04T17:16:00.000-05:00i agree...i suppose i took the long way around to ...i agree...i suppose i took the long way around to say: when you start thinking about words that are thrown around to hurt or debase folks, you also start to see the fear behind that naming/shaming.omihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12999467500417449611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8884955.post-72735323438525082772009-02-03T16:13:00.000-05:002009-02-03T16:13:00.000-05:00if you are living, you are queer. we're all queer ...if you are living, you are queer. we're all queer if we are expressing our highest selves. that's what queer means to me; having the courage to express my highest self.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com